Closer / Strangers
Strangers Exactly one year ago, Lila spent two weeks in California. She planned a road trip with a photographer from New York, who inspired her very much. They shared the same passion and wrote nearly on a daily basis without ever having met each other. Lila loved such adventures, they were entirely to her taste. […]
The Future of Relationships
The Future of Relationships In this article, too, I would like to begin by recalling one of my previous articles in which I dealt with the topic of monogamy and polyamory and asked the question whether the traditional partnership as we know it can still be saved? We operate in a field of tension between […]
Let’s talk about Sex
Let’s talk about Sex Hardly any discussion is more interesting and offers as much scope as the one about sexuality. Everyone talks about it, everyone does it and everyone has hidden fantasies that still cannot unfold freely because the importance of accepting and living out one’s own sexuality is not taken seriously and is called […]
The Future of Sex
The Future of Sex Not too long ago, I shared my personal thoughts about »The Future of Love«. But what does »The future of Sex« actually look like? When we consider that at a time when homosexuals have still not really arrived in many parts of the world today, sex service providers are degraded to […]
We all have sex work to do
We all have sex work to do. Some of the hardest conversations people have are about sex and relationships. These conversations are usually very binary: right and wrong, moral and immoral, etc. Even just being gay is still a big debate in most parts of the world. Gay people therefore live in their own separate […]
Slave of lust
Dominance and Submission: BDSM Relationships in Everyday Life No other world is as multi-faceted as BDSM. Sexual fantasies can be lived out to the limit of pain, create new insights and usually bring master and subordinate closer together. But what does such a relationship actually look like in everyday life? How can one maintain this kind of […]
Generation Gangbang
Is the youth nowadays really more unrestrained? Actually, there’s nothing left that doesn’t exist: Everyone does it with everyone, on the Internet podcast moderators tell about their last orgasm, sex is easily ordered through various apps with one click, and porn sites are more accessible than ever before. Actually a nice development in terms of […]
Closer / June
June »How awful it is to be unhappily in love in summer when the whole world radiates joy. I was always unhappy in love only in winter or grey times and could simply give in to this melancholy. Let’s jump in the water, it’ll change your mind.« What irony Martha thinks, her friend Selma always […]
Sex work – Questions for our society
Sex work – Questions for our society On the occasion of the International Whores’ Day, which took place on 2nd of June, I am devoting myself to the subject of sex work and listening to those voices who are still struggling with discrimination and who wish to be treated with respect. Because sex work is […]
Sperm – the erotic game with the ejaculate
Sperm – the erotic game with the ejaculate Whether Cumshot, Snowballing or Creampie, the male ejaculate offers various possibilities to include it in love play, even if this is not every man’s/woman’s thing. The milky consistency can be fun in many ways and create more closeness in a partnership. Today I dedicate myself exclusively to […]